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Date: 2008-09-12 01:05 pm (UTC)Asshole. I don't care if you do have good recipes.
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Date: 2008-09-12 01:07 pm (UTC)Dude's obviously got his own body issues to deal with, but seriously. STFU.
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Date: 2008-09-12 01:33 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2008-09-12 01:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-12 03:01 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-12 01:57 pm (UTC)Being ashamed of your body only makes it that much easier to disassociate your *self* from your body to the point where you don't know or care what's going on with it. I've spent plenty of years like that, living just in my head with my body as a sort of unfortunate luggage dragged around with me. In order to be willing to invest effort in my physical self, I have to continually find things to love about my body, and society doesn't make that fucking easy.
Of course, none of that touches on issues of disability or other things beyond a person's control. If everyone could just stop judging other people without knowing their whole story, the whorld would be an immeasurably better place.
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Date: 2008-09-12 02:08 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-12 03:03 pm (UTC)THIS, exactly. And I've found that personal responsibility tends to come with less of a judgmental interest in what other people are doing on their path.
PS: I love that icon.
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Date: 2008-09-12 04:35 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-12 03:02 pm (UTC)I swear, I'm gonna print this out and stick it to my bathroom mirror as a reminder.
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Date: 2008-09-12 04:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-12 03:13 pm (UTC)Being ashamed of your body only makes it that much easier to disassociate your *self* from your body to the point where you don't know or care what's going on with it.
I've spent the better part of twenty-five years disassociated, and all shame has ever made me feel like doing was buying a half-gallon of ice cream and scarfing it down while I read fanfic. It's only now, after several false starts and over a decade of wanting to lose weight that I think I might finally be able to get healthier. But I will always love food - I will never be a twig, and I'm fine with that. I just want to get my body to a point where I'm able to do the other things I love as well.
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Date: 2008-09-12 04:44 pm (UTC)Yes! Exactly! *hugs*
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Date: 2008-09-12 02:22 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2008-09-12 02:35 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-12 03:08 pm (UTC)What troubles me is that he's got a young daughter. If her genetics mean that (like Alton) she tends towards extra weight, is he going to be as harsh to her as he is to himself?
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Date: 2008-09-12 04:51 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-09-12 08:56 pm (UTC)no subject
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