Your overt intention may not have been to turn nilchance into a circus attraction. However, she made a very personal recollection in the form of this post and then, rather engage with her about it, or reflect on what she said, your reaction was "Hey, can I pass this on to my boss? She's sick too!"
I'm not speaking for anyone but myself. If Nilchance has something to say, I have absolutely no doubt that she's more than capable of saying it for herself. I found your query problematic. I said something about it. I don't need to hide behind Nilchance or vice versa, and it's insulting to both of us for you to suggest otherwise. If you think Nilchance needs someone else to be her mouthpiece, you haven't been reading this journal as much as I thought you had.
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Date: 2009-09-16 09:09 pm (UTC)Your overt intention may not have been to turn nilchance into a circus attraction. However, she made a very personal recollection in the form of this post and then, rather engage with her about it, or reflect on what she said, your reaction was "Hey, can I pass this on to my boss? She's sick too!"
I'm not speaking for anyone but myself. If Nilchance has something to say, I have absolutely no doubt that she's more than capable of saying it for herself. I found your query problematic. I said something about it. I don't need to hide behind Nilchance or vice versa, and it's insulting to both of us for you to suggest otherwise. If you think Nilchance needs someone else to be her mouthpiece, you haven't been reading this journal as much as I thought you had.