Man, okay, I feel like I need to say this...

[nilchance]

Paganism. It does not mean victim-blaming.

Silence. It does not mean consent.

Consent. It does not mean too drunk to refuse.

(For everybody who's been hurt by this whole clusterfuck, I am so sorry. I'm here and I'm listening.)

Comments

[allthelivesofme.livejournal.com]

Thank you. The "well, you should've done this and this and this!" is just galling, especially from ones you'd think should know better. I think the only part that's kept me from just exploding with rage over this crap is seeing some kickass people saying in no uncertain terms that this is Not Okay. Also, I found out about the Open Source Back Each Other Up Project. So that's good.

[nilchance.livejournal.com]

Yesss. God, I was so horrified by all the people who were insistent that the harmed women were just overdramatizing and blah blah.