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[nilchance]

well, my estranged father apparently died on the 16th. I found out on Facebook. I just texted my brother for the first time in 10 years because I guess I no longer have to worry about things getting back to my father. I have no idea how I'm feeling about this yet.

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[coyotegestalt]

oof.

thinking of you, friend <3
*Sending hugs if wanted*

[nilchance]

thank you, and hugs are very much welcomed. <3

[dine]

thinking of you
*hugs*

[nilchance]

thank you. *hugs* <3

[weyrlady]

Jeez, that's got to be a lot. Take all the time you need and don't feel obligated to feel anything in particular. <3

[tabaqui]

I'm so sorry. I hope that, however your emotions sort themselves, that you can be at peace.

[epeeblade]

*hugs* Not sure what to say. Thinking of you.

[nilchance]

thank you, I appreciate that. I'm trying to be patient with myself at the moment. <3

[nilchance]

thank you very much. I'm still a bit of a mess, but I think I'll be okay given a little more time. <3

[nilchance]

thank you, that's very kind of you. *hugs*

[azurelunatic]

I hope you can have a meaningful relationship with your brother, now that things are as they are. I know estrangement is never easy and I hope that you can find some peace with things now.

When my own estranged father died, the thing that got me most was my mom's grief, because while I had mourned his loss years before, it was fresh to her.